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What Is EMDR?
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a powerful
new therapeutic process that has helped hundreds of thousands of people
find relief from a wide range of emotional and personal problems.
How Did It Get Started?
In the late 1980's, a psychologist, named Francine Shapiro, made a
serendipitous discovery: she found that disturbing thoughts, feelings,
or flashbacks that often follow a traumatic event could be alleviated
or eliminated by having victims move their eye rapidly while reflecting
on the event. The procedure eliminated or lessened the negative associations
of the event with the victim and had a calming, self-affirming effect.
EMDR was soon formalized into new treatment for Post-Traumatic Stress
Disorder (PTSD) and used to treat rape victims and Vietnam vets.
How Has EMDR Evolved Since?
Since its beginnings, both the applications and process of EMDR have
changed considerably. EMDR has evolved into a useful treatment for
a range of emotional problems as well as PTSD. It has become a valuable
component of relationship and sex therapy. It can also be used as
an effective performance enhancer, with applications to sports, the
performing arts and business.
Now, neither eye movements nor negative experiences are any longer a necessary part of the treatment. Clients may focus on a specific positive or negative event: past, current, anticipated or even imagined. Any residues of negativity are attenuated and feelings of competence, self-worth and well-being are enhanced.
Treatment may still involve eye movements, but more likely, clients
will receive bilateral stimulation auditorially through short tones
heard through earphones or tactilely through mild taps, often delivered
mechanically to opposite sides of the body. It is rapidly alternating
bilateral stimulation, not eye movements specifically, which produces
the therapeutic effect.
What Does EMDR Therapy Involve?
Several sessions are required for the therapist to understand the
nature of the problem, assess the suitability of EMDR, determine the
specifics events (or images) to be targeted with EMDR, and orient
the client to the process.
In an actual EMDR session, the client focuses on a selected event
and the therapist helps the client center on him/herself witnessing
the event. Next, bilateral stimulation with eye movements, or alternating
taps or beeps, is begun. Periodically (every 10 seconds to 2 minutes),
the therapist interrupts the bilateral stimulation to ask about the
client's current state and further guide the process. EMDR of the
selected image or events ends when, after repeated rounds of viewing
the image, the client is able to do so with a positively enhanced
sense of her/himself.
How Does EMDR Work?
We don't really know how EMDR works. We know that several components
are key: 1) the client must focus on something significant, an event
or an image; 2) the client must center on him/herself while focusing
on the image; and 3) bilateral stimulation is essential. What clients
experience during bilateral stimulation varies from client to client
and from time to time. The outcome is that clients effectively reposition
themselves with respect to the event and feel enhanced emotionally
and cognitively.
What Kinds of Problems Does EMDR Help?
EMDR has been found helpful in the treatment of anxiety, performance
anxiety, stress, phobias, panic attacks, obsessive-compulsive disorders,
post-traumatic stress disorder, trauma, emotional residues of an abusive
or neglectful childhood, anger, episodic rage, low self-esteem, depression,
complicated grief, addictions, performance anxiety, and relationship
problems.
How Has EMDR Been Used at Council for Relationships?
Staff members have been leaders in incorporating EMDR into relationship
and sex therapy. We continue to use it extensively and to integrate
current EMDR developments into our work. With EMDR, we have improved
the quality of life for people suffering from nagging self-doubt,
anxiety, and depression. We have helped clients free themselves of
the emotional consequences of growing up in alcoholic, abusive, or
neglectful families. We have helped many face potentially unsettling
events like upcoming surgery, a legal proceeding, or a critical exam
with confidence and self-assurance. Most central to our mission, we
have helped distressed couples to de-escalate hostility and anger
and to practice and reinforce healthier ways of relating.
Anyone interested in learning more about EMDR might enjoy reading
the very readable EMDR: The Breakthrough Therapy for Overcoming
Anxiety, Stress, and Trauma by F.Shapiro and M.S.Forrest.
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