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“Conversation Hearts”
for Valentine’s Day and Everyday

Sara J. Corse, PhD
February 12, 2007

NECCO began putting funny little sayings on chalky-tasting candy hearts back in the 1800’s. Maybe you remember them from grade school. Old classics like “Be Mine” and “Truly Yours”. Racy ones (to a 2nd grader!) like “Kiss Me”. Recent additions for the modern age such as “E-Mail Me” and “Be My Icon”.

At Council for Relationships, therapists have been creating “Conversation Hearts for Valentine’s Day and Everyday” since 1932 - encouraging couples to deepen their sense of connection, support each other as individuals and handle disagreements in productive ways. Reach into this candy bowl and see what speaks to you!

♥ “Luv You” (April Westfall) Cultivate a soulful and deeply physical bond with your partner.

♥ “Gimme Hugs” (Lucy Raizman) The "cuddle hormone" (oxytocin) promotes physical well-being and emotional connection. It is released when we touch, hug or hold hands.

♥ “Let’s Date” (Bill Coffey) Establish a regular date night to maintain your relationship.

♥ “Money Talk” (Margaret Shapiro) Learn how to talk about money in terms of its emotional significance in your relationship.

♥ “Stay Connected” (George James) Keep talking and listening to each other, even during difficult times in your relationship.

♥ “Tell Me” (Michelle Marsh) Find a way to talk with each other about your desires for emotional and physical intimacy.

♥ “Starting Over” (Judy Rader) Getting back into the dating scene after a separation/divorce.

These are only a few of the “Conversation Hearts” suggested by the clinical staff at Council for Relationships to keep your relationships on solid ground. Look for a new relationship tip every 2 weeks, and explore our archives.

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Dr. Sara Corse is the Clinical Director of CFR’s University City office. She is also the author of “Cradled All the While: The Unexpected Gifts of a Mother’s Death.” Dr. Corse can be reached at 215-382-6680 x3117.

For more relationship advice, check out our Archive of Relationship Tips.